{"id":1280,"date":"2015-01-29T22:59:04","date_gmt":"2015-01-30T02:59:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marksisco.com\/blog\/?p=1280"},"modified":"2015-01-29T23:00:24","modified_gmt":"2015-01-30T03:00:24","slug":"cordiality-is-contagious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marksisco.com\/?p=1280","title":{"rendered":"Cordiality is Contagious"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Project 365 &#8211; Day 29<\/p>\n<p>Ever watchful for my daily image, I saw a beautiful curving walkway while at an appointment today.\u00a0 I fetched my little X100s from the messenger bag, and I began exploring and experimenting.<\/p>\n<p>I photographed this area for a good 10 minutes, at which point I heard a very polite, &#8220;Sir, may I help you?&#8221;\u00a0 It was a security guard.\u00a0 It is not uncommon for commercial property owners to frown upon a snooping photographer hanging around studying and shooting.\u00a0 This is completely understandable in this age of high tech security breaches.<\/p>\n<p>As the guard asked his question a second time, I turned and greeted him.\u00a0 He gently asked what I was doing.\u00a0 I said, &#8220;This architecture is great, so I thought I would grab a few photos.&#8221;\u00a0 I confirmed the images were simply for my own pleasure, not for sale or commercial use.\u00a0 He was such a gentleman.\u00a0 He told me he was sure there was no harm, and that the property manager would likely permit me to shoot if I would ask in advance.\u00a0 The security guard then apologetically asked me to stop shooting until I sought permission inside.\u00a0 I said, &#8220;No problem.\u00a0 I have what I want.\u00a0 It didn&#8217;t even dawn on me this would be a concern.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had run-ins before when shooting inside or around a business.\u00a0 They are almost always confrontational.\u00a0 Security starts the conversation with an attitude, and it degrades from there.\u00a0 But today was different.\u00a0 This kind soul was not accusatory.\u00a0 He was cordial, cheerful and respectful.\u00a0 Hopefully he would say I returned in kind.<\/p>\n<p>As they say, one attracts more flies with honey than vinegar.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span class=\"verse v17\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.17\"><span class=\"label\">Proverbs 11<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v17\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.17\"><span class=\"label\">17 <\/span><span class=\"content\">When you\u2019re kind to others, you help yourself;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v17\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.17\"><span class=\"content\">when you\u2019re cruel to others, you hurt yourself.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v18\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.18\"><span class=\"label\">18 <\/span><span class=\"content\">Bad work gets paid with a bad check;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v18\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.18\"><span class=\"content\">good work gets solid pay.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\">&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v23\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.23\"><span class=\"label\">23 <\/span><span class=\"content\">The desires of good people lead straight to the best,<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v23\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.23\"><span class=\"content\">but wicked ambition ends in angry frustration.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v24\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.24\"><span class=\"label\">24 <\/span><span class=\"content\">The world of the generous gets larger and larger;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v24\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.24\"><span class=\"content\">the world of the stingy gets smaller and smaller.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v25\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.25\"><span class=\"label\">25 <\/span><span class=\"content\">The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v25\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.25\"><span class=\"content\">those who help others are helped.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\">&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v28\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.28\"><span class=\"label\">28 <\/span><span class=\"content\">A life devoted to things is a dead life, a stump;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v28\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.28\"><span class=\"content\">a God-shaped life is a flourishing tree.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\">&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v30\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.30\"><span class=\"label\">30 <\/span><span class=\"content\">A good life is a fruit-bearing tree;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"q\"><span class=\"verse v30\" data-usfm=\"PRO.11.30\"><span class=\"content\">a violent life destroys souls.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_1281\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/marksisco.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/150129_006-2.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1281\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1281\" src=\"http:\/\/marksisco.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/150129_006-2-700x466.jpg\" alt=\"Walkway Architecture\" width=\"700\" height=\"466\" srcset=\"https:\/\/marksisco.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/150129_006-2-700x466.jpg 700w, https:\/\/marksisco.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/150129_006-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/marksisco.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/150129_006-2.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1281\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Walkway Architecture<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Fuji Xx100s, 23mm f\/2.0, 1\/100 sec @ f\/11, ISO800<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Project 365 &#8211; Day 29 Ever watchful for my daily image, I saw a beautiful 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